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[quote=Anonymous]No advice sought it just makes me sad. Needed to share that somewhere. He had a lot of childhood trauma and is hyper vigilant. It’s rare he is relaxed enough to be physically vulnerable. I’m sad for him, and miss the warmth of intimacy. Yes. I knew this going in, but thought he’d feel safer over time. Emotionally he’s more open, still not there physically. Cuddling can elicit shutdown. It gets lonely. Thankfully we have a cat. And he’s softer with our child. I fear there is something about me that reminds him of his mother, who was/is mentally unwell. I suggested therapy but we haven’t gotten there yet. Thank you for listening. [/quote]
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