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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - I posted this because I feel that I strive for perfection at the expense of my family sometimes. I WOHM and have 2 young children. I want to have the perfect clean house - so I am a witch to everyone as I run around straightening up perfectly normal messes. I want my children to do well in school, so after I work, pick up the kids from aftercare, cook dinner, I sit down with them as they do their homework. I want to be the perfect wife, so after I do all that, I put the kids to bed and fold laundry and at least once a week I have to find time to have sex with my husband. Then weekends are the kids activities. Somewhere along the line I lost "me". The cracks are not only showing, but they are big enough that I am about to fall through. I just want to admit to everyone that I cannot do it all! I have been told by several people that I appear so organized and together when in truth I am a mess.[/quote] Yup - I could have written this post exactly. Just this morning, after nursing my son, I spent the next hour preparing him for daycare, me for work, husband for work that I didn't get to play with him at all - my husband did. In fact, I rarely get to play with him because I am so busy 'working' doing chores, cooking, etc from AM to PM, WOH in between. [/quote]
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