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[quote=Anonymous]We have 3 (girl, girl, then boy). We have toyed with having a 4th, but of course there are LOTS of questions and concerns. I’m 41. We are blessed with typically developed children. Those odds change. Could we love all? Yes. But what complications and challenges do we want to invite into our lives? Both parents work now, but I could pull back. We would love for the boy to have a brother, but obviously there are no guarantees there. DH is from family of 4 — he is the oopsie, 10yrs younger than his next closest sibling. He loves his family dynamic. I’m from a family of 3 kids where my youngest brother is the oopsie and my parents totally paid no attention to him. I would also really consider walking into traffic if somehow the potential 4th pregnancy was multiples. What have your experiences been?[/quote]
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