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Reply to "Ok...let me rephrase this. How do I find the courage to leave my abusive DH?"
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[quote=Anonymous]As a survivor, let me be clear. When you leave you have to leave. All the way. No occasional texting. No “I hope you’re doing ok-ing” No “God Bless You-ing” Nothing. Before I finally left for good there were MULTIPLE times my abuser manipulated his way back in. Abusers can be master manipulators , saying what they know you want to hear, mirroring your desired behaviors. In your head you’ll see them as being remorseful. Sometimes the parents (his) will also try to convince you he’s being remorseful. For him, he is patiently awaiting the next time he will beat you. Be clear. This is super hard. But if you want to stay alive, you must stop telling yourself lies first. Lies like, “He will change.” He can’t change his pathology. H[/quote]
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