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[quote=Anonymous]I’ve been accused of having a personality similar to your husbands. My nicknames have been fun sponge and Debbie downer. But to be honest I don’t even realize that what I’m saying is perceived as negative. But it bothers others. They want perpetual sunshine and I bring a rainy cloud. For me I just have a vigilant personality that worries a lot so my statements are basically me expressing a worry or an observation. for instance I’ll walk out and say it’s not very sunny today. Apparently that’s a downer. Your husband may not even realize that this bothers you. You need to speak to him about it and maybe say honey I need a little more sunshine today could you rephrase that comment into something positive? In some ways I resent having to always be a ray of sunshine and not being able to be myself but you do have to at least be conscious that others may only want to hear positive comments. But you need to talk it through with your partner.[/quote]
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