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[quote=Anonymous]This is going to sound morbid but figure out the burial issues now with your dad. I didn’t need my dad’s money either (and there wasn’t a lot) but his second wife was obsessed with burial plots. My mom had died many years ago and my dad had bought 4 plots in a nice cemetery. Apparently, it’s really hard to get plots there now, so she really wanted to make sure she got the other 2 (that part was fine). But somehow she now has control over all 4 bc of some document she had my dad sign. My siblings and I are not local and by the time I figured this out, he was deteriorating. I planned to bring an attorney to the assisted living home on my next trip to handle some things but he deteriorated quickly. Again, this wasn’t about money but about the fact that they were divorced by this point and no one wanted her making decisions.  Now she has control of my mother’s plot and my father’s. She can do whatever she wants with the other two. I have to have her transfer my parents’ plots back to me bc when she dies, her kids will have control. Long story, make sure you are in control of all of that. [/quote]

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