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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The better question is "Why does it bother you?" [/quote] It's an anti-social behavior. If someone is just competitive with themself, as a way to motivate, that's one thing. But people who are competitive with others want to win, and they want others to lose. That is necessarily disruptive to social situations. Most competitive people are also freeloading on the better social skills of others. The competitive person will be aggressive and challenging, but it can be defused by having people around who don't take the bait, and who know how to change the subject or use empathy to help avoid hurt feelings. That's a lot of work to do to manage a competitive person, and it would be better if they could manage their own behavior better.[/quote]
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