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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]no, my husband barely works a few hours a day and doesn't make much money,  AND he wants nice vacations without extended family, so I can't relate there...however...

on a serious note: I'm sorry, I imagine its a combination of work culture reinforcing his habits, and the fact that being a parent to 4 kids, if you're not used to it, is harder than being at work. You're the efualt parent and its hard to argue against "but I have work."

[b]I think you should spend some money on fantastic vacations and if he doesn't want to come along, you bring a friend and/or a sitter for the kids. You should have a say in how money is spent. [/b]

might be worth some therapy. how are things otherwise? Its kinda hard to work on a marriage with 4 kids and an absent partner...[/quote]

I ran this by him yesterday because I had the idea of taking them to an all inclusive resort when the Pandemic is over. I feel like that would be manageable on my own. But he was like hell no. That's what got me thinking about all of this.

How is the marriage otherwise? It's fine because I've accepted that he's not going to be that involved in family outings. It's ok with me, we have fun on our own. He doesn't realize what he is missing out on.[/quote]

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