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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you handle of the mental load of your household? Do you know if you need more paper towels? When is the last time you changed the sheets or towels? Do you know what size shoes your kids wear or what size clothes, and do you know if they have a winter jacket that fits them for this upcoming winter season? Any bday parties coming up? If yes, when and what present is being purchased? What about the holidays - where are you going, what dishes are you bringing, and if you are going to your family's home, is your family organizing this with your wife or with you? When it comes time for the holiday season, do you know what you all are getting your kids for presents? Are you low on bath soap for the kids? Could you dial the kids' pediatrician if you needed to? This is the crap that is endless, takes time to manage, and is often what the husband does not do. And while you are doing a lot, if you are not aware of any of the above items that I mentioned, you are not equally managing the household and should find a way to fill the gap. [/quote] If he is the breadwinner and she is a SAHM, she should do all that crap. It’s her job. [b]The idea that he should work all day then come home and do an equal share of managing the household is insane[/b].[/quote] I guarantee you that if she worked full-time out of the home, he still wouldn't know the answers to the above questions. [/quote]
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