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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I have had a dead bedroom for almost a year due to his ongoing gastric and stomach pain issues. He’s been in and out of doctors offices due to his chest discomfort and pain in his stomach. He is anxious and not in the mood for sex. I feel badly that he is ill but also really am horny and miss being intimate. Whenever I bring it up, he blows up at me and says I am selfish to bother him with this complaint while he is sick. It gets nowhere. Am I in the wrong? [/quote] I don’t know. DH is a cancer patient. Intimacy is something that takes a lot of forms. At the lowest points, he was so ravaged by treatments that it hurt him for me to touch him. At other points, he smelled so sick, I lost a lot of desire for him and got nauseated cuddling. We never stopped talking though and that way, we didn’t truly lose each other. You guys need to work stuff out verbally.[/quote]
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