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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's hard to know, without hearing his side.  How many hours do you work each week? Maybe he feels like the total number of hours each of you are putting in is more equal than you are thinking. Maybe you could make a list of chores and divide it out more equitably.  [/quote]

He does very little chores and I'm generally fine with that.  He takes out the trash and recycling, he loads his own laundry into the washer, and he *usually* empties the dishwasher in the morning,[b] he handles our investments, [/b]and 2 years ago, he finally took over doing our taxes because I stopped working.  I do EVERYTHING else.  Would it be nice if he helped clean up after dinner - yes, but that's my only semi-complaint.

The real problem is his anger annoyance at me for not prioritizing the home maintenance/improvements to his level of satisfaction.[/quote]

This is going to bite you eventually. He makes the money and is controlling it- and rightly so, since he earned it. You need to earn and control your own money because when this marriage goes south, you are going to be screwed otherwise.[/quote]

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