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[quote=Anonymous]Had an opportunity to have one when I was engaged to my now DW. I'd like to take credit for the fact that it didn't happen, but if I'm being honest I would have done it. We were really young, and so I guess I wasn't the rational level-headed guy I am now.

It was an opportunity that just popped up, not one I sought out. We were newly engaged (I think only about a month) and not yet living together. I was living in an apartment with a friend of mine (call him "roommate", and me, future DW, my friend, and future DW's friend "call her other girl") whom my friend was dating at the time were all hanging out one night.

Roommate worked shift work as a hotel manager and had to go to work that night. Future DW and I were finishing up our last semester of college and each had something to work on (it was 20 years ago, don't remember what) so she decided to go back to her place that night.

After she left it was just me an other girl. I will say she was known to be a bit promiscuous, so why I didn't see it coming I don't know. She had stayed over with roommate the past few nights but was going home that night. She was going to stop and see him at work for a bit before heading home. She had her bag packed and said she would come back and get it after she visited him, which made absolutely no sense to me and I told her so.

She just repeated that she'd come back and get it and needed to borrow my key. I told her that was fine, and to just leave it on the table downstairs (my bedroom was upstairs) and just lock the door handle on the way out since I would be sleeping when she got back (decided to just go to bed and get up early to work on my project, which may have saved my future marriage).

I woke up the next morning and my key was sitting on the night stand next to my bed. My door had been closed, so despite me telling her to leave the key downstairs, she had come up to my room and opened my door knowing that I was alone. That's when it hit me what had really almost happened the night before.

So yeah, I fortunately blundered my way out of an affair that had almost quite literally fell in my lap.[/quote]

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