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[quote=Anonymous]If you are not sure, I would not do it. I did not decide. It was an accident. I love them, but I would have been happier most likely remaining childless. I did not want to go through life stages that kids go through...meaning I did not see the need to have adult children. I would have been perfectly fine without them. It is a lot of sacrifice and work. If you are an anxious person, it's harder. If you are the default parent, it is harder. If you love your career and can't advance, it is harder. If you do not have a family support system, it is harder. It is also very expensive. I think you have to think about what you want 20-30 years from now. I actually loved the baby stage the best. I still would have likely been happier without kids though.[/quote]
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