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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is interesting to read as I feel I am the spouse with some serious mental health issues. Sometimes I want to end it all to alleviate them or anyone having to deal with me at all. [/quote] I've been where you are. I want you to know that you matter. You have inherent value and you deserve to live. Yes, your spouse makes you feel like garbage. Yes, that only wants to make you hide more. Your spouse may indeed think you're worthless, but that doesn't mean you are worthless. Your spouse is wrong. What it does mean is that your marriage is over. I was on increasing amounts of pyschiatric medication. But what really helped is when he "had enough" and moved out. Yeah, I needed help with the kids, especially on weekends. I hired a nanny part-time. But I accomplished so much more in a day when the constant reminders that I was a disgrace went away. And I don't need a nanny on weekends anymore. "I love you sooooooooooooooo much!!" says my daughter. It is SO WORTH IT! LIVE! [/quote]
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