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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I actually don't get into too much family history, even with close friends. I just don't really like to talk about it. Sometimes I will mention at the most that mother is Borderline Personality or not very nice. [b]But I have just found people to be extremely judgemental if you are a daughter and don't have a good relationship. [/b]It is almost like there is no excuse for this. I don't know how to say she has faked that she has a terminal illness and calls and says I deserve for my kids to die and that's why we are not close. [/quote] Then you have found the wrong people and need new friends. You are being vague and unclear instead of direct. "My mother's day? No, we spent it with just the four of us. MY mother? Nah, after she faked a terminal illness and said I deserve for our kids to die, I stopped interacting with her." See how easy that is?[/quote]
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