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[quote=Anonymous]OP I hear you. I had one relative say "Everyone's abuuuuused now. People are such wimps. It's not liked you were beaten every day. Get over it." You have to let go of a lot of things. It doesn't matter if people judge you and think you are the bad one. It's often the more religious people who feel the need to judge IME and God teaches us not to do that so there's that. Denial and gaslighting are real and it tell you about the person doing it. They are letting you know what is in the heart. Do you really care what someone with a cruel heart thinks of you? Sometimes it's just ignorance and naivite and we have all been there. In that case forgive them and hope life helps them to be more empathetic. [/quote]
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