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[quote=Anonymous]That’s terrible OP. This happened to me as a high schooler and it was pretty traumatic. I basically wanted to sleep and not wake up. School became hell. I was very lonely and everyone thought these horrible things about me that weren’t even true... it is so hurtful to have your trust breached that way.

However, although I couldn’t see it then, it was actually a huge gift to me from the universe. I ended up getting closer with another group of friends (who were already my friends but on a more casual level). That group was always inviting me out but I often chose the more “popular” group. Shame on me. The popular group betrayed me, while this other group? Once I started spending more time with them, I wondered why I ever even bothered with the first group. They are still my very beloved best friends more than 20 years later.

Sending hugs, OP. Take it day by day. Spend time with other friends and learn to enjoy being alone if you don’t already. This whole situation says more about them than you. If you were truly doing something wrong, real friends would have come to you, instead of talking behind your back. [/quote]

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