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[quote=Anonymous] 1.) Set boundaries and enforce them calmly. Expect her to stomp on them, but don't give in. 2.) Never give an emotional reaction-stay calm. 3.) Keep in touch by email and text so you have written proof of tirades. Only meet in public places with witnesses or now you can use the Covid excuse not to meet or to keep it outside from a distance in PUBLIC. 4.) Give up caring what other people think. In an effort to feel powerful they will badmouth you to others and shame you. it only matters if it matters...let of letting it matter. 5.) Always have an exit plan if you dare talk by phone or see the person in private or even in public. 6.) Know you are not alone. Many of us have a parent with a personality disorder and have dealt with abuse.[/quote]
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