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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you like each other? Do you respect each other? Are you committed to a life together? 
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No[/quote]

Well, I'd say no to the first two. I do have a commitment to trying to have life together. I'm not sure if DH is committed. He says he's leaving a lot, but comes back. He grew up around this dynamic. I find it really frustrating.[/quote]
That is incredibly frustrating and I imagine emotionally exhausting.

A friend of ours is married to a DW who yells at him to "move out" and threatens divorce every time they have the smallest disagreement. She did that before they were married and now they're in it with two little kids. At this point I think he's numb to it. In my armchair opinion she has repressed childhood abandonment issues and past relationship trauma that she hasn't resolved and basically refuses to address. You say your DH grew up in that dynamic. Has he ever been to therapy to discuss this history?[/quote]

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