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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to find a therapist, stat, and figure out the best way to help your kid. I am not an expert on this, but I think this may be one instance where breaking the confidence may be necessary. Get a telehealth appointment,p.

Stop focusing on your husband. That’s secondary right now. He may suck but stop giving him your energy and focus when that needs to be on your daughter.[/quote]

This is the best advice.  For me, I wouldbe very upset and disappointed in my husband if I behaved this way.  I would not want to look over this behavior.  At all.

However, it's kind of like paying attention to the paint chipping off when your boat is sinking.  Focus on finding the leak in the boat and stopping it.  Give your daughter all your attention and focus, and pay for a therapist who can allow you to vent and process your emotions, since your husband is so incapable of giving you the empathy you need. Hopefully a therapist that can give you the best advice for how to best be there for your daughter and how to approach her.  Paying for therapy for her too might be a great idea.

Once this storm is over then you can address your husband's lack of compassion.  But focus on your own emotions and your daughters, and try to block him out.[/quote]

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