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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I imagine he is having a very very difficult time processing what you shared. I doubt his snap was intended to be as isolating as it was. This is a serious traumatic event. I’m sure it pains your husband as much as it pains you to hear of your daughters assault and this heinous crime. Have you thought of talking with a domestic abuse advocate to help you both frame this issue and road ahead in a way that will suooort your daughter as a victim, but also everyone else that knows as her loving suooort network?

I would try not to be too critical with each other right now, you are a team, remember the value in your differences. I’m so sorry that your child experienced this and hope you’re connected with good resources on the road ahead.[/quote]
This. Men react to trauma differently than women. 
In men are from mars women are from Venus - men want to withdraw to process emotions and women want to talk about it and connect.

Its completely classic and normal. You both will need time and ut seems your daughter didn't want you to know and be traumatized. So be sensitive to your daughter not wantkng to be stressed by your negative emotions as well[/quote]

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