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[quote=Anonymous]He's feeling you out to see if you even want to meet the kid, and if you are on board to do so in the next few months. +1 to thinking about his relationship with the ex. But also, think about whether you want to be a stepmother at all. Really think about it, do research, and read some books. Because it can be super difficult even if it doesn't seem that way at first. Do you want your children to be their father's 2nd and 3rd children? Do you want to step-parent and live with this child 50% of the time? Do you want to plan your lives to be compatible with a custody schedule and his agreements with his ex? It's not that easy even if everyone wants to make it work. Do you want to raise kids with a man who's also spending time and money on his son (likely time and money that would otherwise go to your future children)? [/quote]
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