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[quote=Anonymous]I think 7 years is a long time to plan anything when you're 22. If you enjoy his company and he likes living with you I don't see anything wrong with it, though I think he should be spending some of his (very generous!) salary on household bills since utilities, food, toilet paper, etc. will all have higher usage with an extra person in the house, and he should do his fair share of keeping the home clean. As for whether it will be a red flag for a potential spouse, I'd say yes for many people. I wouldn't want to marry someone who had never lived independently (a dorm during college doesn't count) because I wouldn't trust that they knew how to deal with home maintenance, grocery shopping, laundry, etc. and I wouldn't want to do those things for my spouse. I would also worry that he would want to spend all his time with his parents at the expense of doing things as a couple, with friends, or with my family. [/quote]
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