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[quote=Anonymous]My parents are doing the same thing ... and for the cherry on top, are begging for “loans” every month because they refuse to downsize or even to get full disability when they were eligible for it. They continuously try to scam friends and relatives out of money claiming they will pay it back. They effectively stole a mentally disabled relative’s inheritance. They claim the moral high ground in every instance and are now trying to guilt me into “loaning” more money on the grounds that I owe it to them. (In actuality they never gave me a cent after 18 and didn’t even let me live at home in the summers after college AND they took me out of their will for no discernable reason.) Perhaps most unforgivably, they are trying to pressure/trick my brother (who they basically abandoned as a teen) into moving in from oversees to help them, and claim that his tiny, non-English speaking wife can be their full-time home health aide.

This is all to say - hold your ground OP and don’t let yourself be dragged down. [/quote]

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