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Reply to "So tired of endless court and stress from divorcing a narcissist "
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[quote=Anonymous]Your last sentence about dealing with narcissists is so true. This is true for divorce and other situations as well. You should first of all keep reminding yourself of how you are masterfully handling the situation. It sounds like you are being as thorough as possible, which is needed when dealing with narcissists. Also, use physical reminders of your safety in your daily life. Those can do a lot to help you regain a sense of self. It can be items in your home that comfort you, an area in your home that is reflective and just yours, etc. The important thing is that you make it your own. How are your kids doing? Are your outside supports there for them enough? It sounds like it, but even with that, it can feel overwhelming to deal with your own trauma and theirs. There will be a time when this narcissist is not so present in your life. Try to picture what that will be like. That can help you to cope with the hopelessness now. Work on figuring out "who knows what's after" for you. You sound like a really strong person.[/quote]
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