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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We separated, I moved out with the kids, my ex and I didn't talk except via notes passed via the kids, and after about four months I stupidly thought "This is great - we're getting along SO Much better!" because we'd manage to wave to each other or mumble "Hi" and our kids gleefully told us we hadn't yelled at each other in months.

Then we realized we were getting along because we didn't have to deal with each other all day every day. We got divorced.  We each live separately happily ever after.  We're good friends now. Our kids have each told us separately we're much better as friends, which alleviated the tiny bit of doubt I had about ruining their lives.  When I remarried after about a year my daughter said, "OH! So THIS is what fighting is supposed to be like?  You just go back and forth and then one person says "Sounds like that's really important to you, so let's do it" and then that's IT?" [/quote]

You remarried within a year?  You were already seeing him I assume...

That's a little different.[/quote]

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