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[quote=Anonymous]First, when you’re solo with your kid. Do not set any expectations that you’ll get anything done. Assume you’ll be spending all of your time tending to the toddler, and that way if you’re able to do anything else, you will feel extra good about it.

Second, this is a super clingy stage. With mine at that age, often I was able to give a big hug instead of picking them up. Kid got the physical affection and attention they were looking for, and I was able to carry on with making dinner or whatever else I was doing. I would just say, “I am doing something right now and I can’t hold you, but how about a big hug?” Then I would get down to their level and scoop them up for a big hug. Most of the time they would toddle off and play with something. You can also let him “help” you after the hug-set him up on a stool at the sink and let him do dishes (which is really just water play with plastic dishes and dish soap). Or give him something to stir. Or the salad spinner. My toddlers loved the salad spinner.

You’re not a bad mom. Toddlers are exhausting.[/quote]

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