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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I have a huge family (hundreds of first and second cousins, with multiple generations having >10 kids -- die-hard Catholics). I've dealt witht his a few times. What worked for me was sending physical letters. Not phone calls, and not visits, because things can go off the rails so quickly. Every so often, depending on how close we were, I'd mail a letter. I'd have in my mind the gentler person I knew from before, and I'd write with that in my mind. If any nastiness came back, somehow it was easier to deal with than in person or by voice. Best wishes. [/quote] Did anyone ever transform in the end? Did you ever cut through the nastiness?[/quote]
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