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[quote=Anonymous]I've gone through years of infertility and am finally pregnant after using donor eggs. I muted, snoozed, or outright unfollowed friends who were posting triggering posts. But I didn't expect them not to share posts about their kids especially since they had no idea what I was going through. If you know of someone who is struggling with infertility or pregnancy/child loss, you can always share your posts without making them visible to those people. I think that's very compassionate and kind. Otherwise, they can always mute you. I'll also say that one of the most hurtful things my ILs did to me was when my SIL had a surprise baby and we were going through a devastating miscarriage after years of IVF at the same time, and my FIL kept sharing newborn pictures even a couple of days after we announced our pregnancy loss and before I even had D&C. I expected him to be more considerate because he is close family and was aware of our struggles. So, if you are aware of anyone's circumstances, just make sure that they won't see what you're posting at least during the worst of their journeys.[/quote]
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