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[quote=Anonymous]My nanny get 4 weeks pto a year - 3 our choosing and one hers - plus holidays. She generally ends up getting additional days off as well due to visiting family etc. She used her one week off back in March. Since then she’s asked for several parts of a day off (eg leave at 3) as well as two half days. I’ve paid her for the full week for all of these and it’s been clear she expects that. She never comps those hours when she works an extra hour or two (which is rare) and always asks for payment for them. She’s now asked for a week off after her wedding in October. On one hand it’s her wedding! And we are in a pandemic! Throw her a bone and pay her without question. On the other I’m starting to feel taken advantage of that she just a expects a lot of extra paid time off for no reason and it’s all take a no give. I see 3 options 1) pay her with no comment 2) pay her and say the additional pto is her wedding gift 3) raise it that it should be unpaid / offer to pay her but expect occassional over time other weeks without additional charge What should I do? I like her overall, not love..there are a few other small issues, but in general would rather not find a new nanny[/quote]
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