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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was recently organizing my closet and discovered a bag of women's underwear hidden near my husband's things that was not mine.  When I confronted my husband about it he admitted the underwear was his.  He then proceeded to lay this bombshell on me.  He said he has always felt confused regarding his gender.  Part of him feels like a woman and wearing women's underwear is a way for him to express that side of him.  He told me he has no desire to transition to a woman now but he did have thoughts about it when he was younger but never would have actually gone through with it.  To make the situation even more complicated, he said he is sexually attracted to both men and women but has never explored anything with a man before. His attraction leans more towards females but the idea of being with a guy sexually turns him on.   He assured me he is very much in love with me and satisfied in the marriage and has no desire to act on anything.  I don't know what to think and I've been in a state of shock ever since.  I am grateful that he was at least honest with me but part of me is angry that he did not reveal any of this while we were dating or during our 8 years of marriage.  I'm too embarrassed to tell my friends about this so I'm posting it here.  WWYD?[/quote]

What are the chances OP?! Pretty low you’d end up with a gender confused spouse who is bisexual. The chances of this being a troll post are infinitely higher, especially in this ever so enlightened age. 
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