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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is so stupid. Do not do it. Send not only flowers and a card, but also a big Harry and David basket or something to one of the hotel rooms, so that you can help "participate" in the gathering.

You KNOW this is stupid. You KNOW this is unsafe. If you value your feelings of guilt and your unreasonable family members' good opinion of you over the health and safety of your family and your community, then you suck. You don't get to call other people "Trumpsters" or "covidiots" because you are even worse then them, to KNOW and believe the dangers and to act so selfishly anyway.[/quote]

Hi, this is OP.  I really do want to support my family members who are losing their immediate loved one.  We are big, close-knit, immigrant family.  If I don't go, I may be the only one who doesn't.  This is a tough decision.  I'm thinking perhaps I could go to be support to the immediate family outdoors, but skip the indoor ceremony with everyone else.  [/quote]

You either care about spreading this virus, or you don’t. You either value your family’s feelings more than the health and safety of your community, or you don’t. Pick one. It’s one or the other. But you don’t get to go and then say you are careful. You do t get to act like you know and care more than “Trumpster.” You will be a Trumpster if you go—me and mine and my popularity above science and my community.[/quote]

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