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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is so stupid. Do not do it. Send not only flowers and a card, but also a big Harry and David basket or something to one of the hotel rooms, so that you can help "participate" in the gathering.

You KNOW this is stupid. You KNOW this is unsafe. If you value your feelings of guilt and your unreasonable family members' good opinion of you over the health and safety of your family and your community, then you suck. You don't get to call other people "Trumpsters" or "covidiots" because you are even worse then them, to KNOW and believe the dangers and to act so selfishly anyway.[/quote]

Hi, this is OP.  I really do want to support my family members who are losing their immediate loved one.  We are big, close-knit, immigrant family.  If I don't go, I may be the only one who doesn't.  This is a tough decision.  I'm thinking perhaps I could go to be support to the immediate family outdoors, but skip the indoor ceremony with everyone else.  [/quote]

Also, everyone attending will have risk factors--most are over 60, almost all are overweight, diabetic, etc.  I think they feel it's worth it to support the family.[/quote]

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