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[quote=Anonymous]I have 2 kids under 7 and things are not rosy with my DH, it is hard, I get it, but I would never have imagined divorce when kids were even younger. It seems like such a gamble, exhausting, you know you need to be a team, our couple was indeed not doing great but we didn’t have time to focus on one another so I would not have taken a radical decision at that moment.

Why do you think people (or why did you) decide to divorce when kids are still toddlers ? You thought you finally saw who your DW or DH really was? He/she was such a jerk than being on your own seemed easier ? Tell me?

Question is prompted by a friend who just texted me that she is going to divorce, I am a bit blindsided. I want to pickup phone and say “DONT it is tough now but it will get better, as a principle don’t get divorce during those tough early years, it WILL get better“. But I’d love more perspective before I call her. (Will check but I am 99% sure there is no abuse or serious behavior/financial reasons, probably newly discovered incompatibility)[/quote]

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