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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I'm really missing our first who started college 2 weeks ago. I'm resisting the urge to call or text but wonder what amount of calling/texting is typical? And do you get involved at all regarding specific assignments (like, did you get that lab report done?) or are homework questions totally off limits? I know answers vary, but looking for some sage advice.[/quote]

Our two oldest are in college.  The oldest will graduate this year!  His brother is a college freshman.  We talk to the boys about once or twice a week.  They'll call more often when they need money.  I don't get involved at all with their coursework.  I know what they are taking, but I don't know their schedules.  I have no idea what days/times they are in class.

We fly them home for Christmas and Thanksgiving.  And they are usually home for a couple of weeks during the summer.

I think many parents are a little too involved in their college aged kids' lives.  This is the time to encourage them to grow up and develop independence.   They are busy with school work, part-time jobs, friends, and girlfriends.  They don't need mama to call or text every day.  You're doing the right thing by resisting that urge.  I know it's hard.  But he'll call you if he needs you.  Otherwise, calling once or twice a week is enough to let him know you are thinking about him while at the same time giving him his space.[/quote]

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