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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I'm really missing our first who started college 2 weeks ago. I'm resisting the urge to call or text but wonder what amount of calling/texting is typical? And do you get involved at all regarding specific assignments (like, did you get that lab report done?) or are homework questions totally off limits? I know answers vary, but looking for some sage advice.[/quote] Our two oldest are in college. The oldest will graduate this year! His brother is a college freshman. We talk to the boys about once or twice a week. They'll call more often when they need money. I don't get involved at all with their coursework. I know what they are taking, but I don't know their schedules. I have no idea what days/times they are in class. We fly them home for Christmas and Thanksgiving. And they are usually home for a couple of weeks during the summer. I think many parents are a little too involved in their college aged kids' lives. This is the time to encourage them to grow up and develop independence. They are busy with school work, part-time jobs, friends, and girlfriends. They don't need mama to call or text every day. You're doing the right thing by resisting that urge. I know it's hard. But he'll call you if he needs you. Otherwise, calling once or twice a week is enough to let him know you are thinking about him while at the same time giving him his space.[/quote]
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