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[quote=Anonymous]I have debated posting this for a while but this has happened with a few different friends over the years and I want to know what I'm doing wrong.

It always follows the same pattern.

Every now and then, it seems like I meet a person who I really "click" with. Conversation is easy and flows well. We continue talking and a friendship begins. At some point, plans are discussed to do a specific activity. The plans usually involve being invited over to this person's home for a specific activity, like going swimming in their pool or having dinner. Some details are discussed, maybe even what time might be best but no date is set.

The plans never happen. I still see the friend in the meantime for other activities. Like maybe they are in my area and ask to stop by, or I invite them to my house/meet for lunch somewhere but I'm never actually invited to their home except for maybe group gatherings. I never mention the plans because I wouldn't want to invite myself over. I can see through social media other mutual friends *are* invited to this person's home though, for similar types of activities, not a group gathering.

Why does this happen? What am I doing wrong?[/quote]

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