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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Photographs can be quite deceptive, and I would not decide that someone had gained a lot of weight based on one photograph.  At any rate, your notion that this is so preventable is absurd.  Please just stop.  She has a lifelong issue with her weight.  Even if she loses a significant amount of weight, maintaining weight loss is going to be a battle.  So just put aside any notion that your sister is going to have a normal relationship with food, ever.

Secondly, no one is asking you to celebrate her weight.  That's not what the no body shaming movement is about.  It's your over-the-top "OMIGOD" reaction that is what the body shaming movement is all about.  [b]That you can't see a photo of your sister without losing your shit and making this all about yourself and your reaction.  [/b]And I don't buy for a minute that you won't discuss this with your friends because you don't want to be "gossipy."  Please.  Get off your shame shitting.[/quote]

This. I'm kind of shocked, although nothing should surprise me at this point, that you're trying to steer the ship to make your sister's weight gain about you and your need to "process". What? [/quote]

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