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[quote=Anonymous]As someone who was overweight (not obese) I’m short too. 5’2 and I gained 50+ pounds in the span of a year. I had everyone from my mom and dad, to her best friend, my MIL, my cousin, point out how much I had gained weight. Not all of it was nice some was “wow you’re so fat now” from my cousin who loves to see people’s reactions to what he says. MIL was somewhat kind and told me to diet and limit eating. None of it was helpful. I spent another year eating like shit and never exercising. For me it wasn’t the people telling me I was fat. It was that one day I was tired of the way I looked and felt. Then, I decided to do something about it. In your sisters case she’s definitely morbidly obese and with the track history of your parent passing away due to that, I see your concern. For my family members and friends it seemed to be more of a vanity issue rather than them caring about my health. My mom even told everyone I was pregnant at one point. Anyway, even if you offer help or advice she might not take it or not be ready to get her life on track. She’ll do it when she’s ready. Or she may not. [/quote]

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