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[quote=Anonymous]I think it’s easiest to make things “funny” when you have some distance from them, and when you have someone — a family member or a community, to join you in laughing together from the perspective of somewhat shared experiences.  I agree with others who have suggested that you talk to a therapist — or someone that you feel you can share your whole self and experiences with without having to edit (unless you choose to). That experience may make it easier for you to have enough distance to edit as you need to, share things with the strengths that humor can give you.

I grew up with an older brother who brought his sense of humor to some difficult family situations. I am forever grateful to him for giving me a useful defense that allowed both of us to develop resilience and strong bonds with each other through these experiences.

Having said that, there are many ways to share tough experiences— and being able to laugh at your pain for the benefit of others may not universally serve you well if you have to diminish your authentic experiences in order to do this.

Wishing you well as you sort these issues out in ways that support your own well-being.

Note: I’m thinking of Richard Pryor as I write this. I’m hardly holding him up as a healthy model, but the experience of watching some of his stand up shows might be something for you to consider. [/quote]

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