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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH has been diagnosed a year ago. And here I am researching divorce laws. It’s hard. It changes him it changes me. And it’s just so tiring when I have to do everything. I thought I’d be a good caregiver but I am not. I started cursing. Meals help. And for me- which has been supper hard to get- me time. It’s either kids or him. I go go go and take care of someone all day long and then at night I clean up, do laundry and crash.[/quote] I’m sorry PP. Being a caregiver is incredibly difficult. Are you eligible for any type of respite care? You do need time, and if you’re at the point where you think divorce is the only way to get it you need it bad. Even if you need to pay for it there’s a good possibility that it might be cheaper than a divorce. See if there’s a way you can get away for a weekend. When my mom was caring for my dad even a few hours one evening a week, or an afternoon on the weekend helped recharge her.[/quote]
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