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[quote=Anonymous]I'll be the outlier. I think it is a little inconsiderate on her part but not rude. The item belongs to her and you knew there were strings attached. In your mind, is she only allowed to request her item back in the one situation she mentioned (her pregnancy)? What if she moved - tough luck for her since not her only allowed caveat. What if she discovered you smoked in the house or not keeping it clean - oh well she isn't pregnant. A neighbor's house burned down and needed replacement items - she should have thought of that. Beggars can't be choosers. Yes, family generally trumps acquaintances. It would be more questionable if she was lending it to another mom in playgroup because they were closer friends. It isn't like we are talking about a car or providing someone shelter, something that cannot easily be replaced. I'm betting you are a first time mom. You need to develop thicker skin to navigate the relationships you'll now have as a mother.[/quote]
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