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[quote=Anonymous]Your mother abused you and refused to protect you. She wasn’t a mother to you. When I made the decision to cut ties with my abusive mother, I did it with the help of a therapist. I think one of the most important parts of the process was allowing myself to grieve for the mother I never had. Every child deserves a mother who loves and protects them. You deserved that, and you will be that mother to your child. But give yourself permission to grieve not having that kind of mother love in your own childhood. Cutting a parent out of your life is a grieving process, not a decision that any of us motherless daughters take out of simple anger. [/quote]
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