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[quote=Anonymous]I am reaching my breaking point with my mother. I will follow up with more details but the basic background is a woman who was physically and emotionally abusive most of my life. She sat by and did nothing when she found out I was being sexually abused. The second time I was sexually abused I pressed charges on my own and she flat out told me it was my fault. I was a child both times and these were both abuse spanning years. She is manipulative, and a narcissist.

She has re written history in her mind. She moved closer to my husband and I and has increasingly demanded more and more attention. For years I kept the peace bc it's what you do in a Indian family. I'm tired of her. Seeing her, talking to her make me sick. She acts like she was the best mom and she did all this stuff for us. It's all bullshit. I walked out of her apt last week because I was this close to telling her exactly how I feel and imploding this "family".

Something needs to change. We are TTC and she had the nerve to say she always thought she would watch our child because of course I want to continue working. I left, the thought of her even holding my child makes me want to murder her. I have to speak up and that might mean completely abandoning my abusive family. I know it's right and I know I should. I just feel like I've grinned and beared it this long. [/quote]

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