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[quote=Anonymous]Why do you want a closed adoption? This is selfish imo We have an adopted 8yo and have an open adoption. We have never met her birth mother and neither has DD. However, we know her name and send her a letter and 5 photos once a year thru a special web portal. DD knows when she wants to meet her BM she can, the adoption agency will faciliate this. DD has bio siblings, she knows they are older than her and she can hopefully meet them when she is older. Who am I to take this away from her? We are her parents and she knows this, we love each other and are a family. But her biology is real and I dont think a closed adoption is the way to go. Might feel better for you, but think about how your kid might feel as a teen.....You wanna do whats right by your kid.[/quote]
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