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[quote=Anonymous]I don’t know if I’m being petty and sensitive, and it is only Tuesday but it’s already been that kind of week. I have an old friend who I only see once in a while. We aren’t close but we keep in touch. Kind of out of the blue a couple weeks ago, she reached out and she mentioned that maybe we should get together this upcoming weekend. Nothing official was planned and I haven’t heard from her, and I think now I know why.

I ran into a mutual friend at Target—she’s closer to my other friend—and mentioned that I may be seeing Larla this weekend. Mutual friend was like, oh yeah, that makes sense, Bill is going out of town this weekend and Larla mentioned she would be lonely.

FWIW, Larla is the kind of person who “misses you” and wants to visit but then suddenly has a doctors appointment near your side of town and oh can you watch my kid while I go and then we can hang out after?

I just feel like she didn’t cement plans because she really doesn’t want to hang out but I’m an option if nothing better comes along. Looking back, I’m now realizing that most of the time she hangs out with me, she mentions her other friends are busy or her husband is out of town.

How do you know if you are a B-list friend? I don’t think I want to keep being this person to Larla. [/quote]

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