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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My best friend used the subject “News”. We were in pretty much the same situation.

The email itself says something along the lines of “Larla, I want to let you know that I am pregnant and due in January. If do you want to talk I’m around, and if you don’t I’m still around.”

Don’t go on about how mentally fragile she must be, or about how bad you feel about it. Just tell her simply over email and give her time to process. Assume that you are keeping your date next week, but don’t be offended if she cancels and don’t ask why. When you see her, let her be the one to bring up the pregnancy. And it would be kind if you didn’t wear something skin tight.

Best of luck to both of you. Congratulations on your pregnancy, and on being a good friend.[/quote]

As someone who dealt with infertility myself, I second this as great advice. [/quote]

Thanks. So, "I am pregnant and due in January. I'm here for you!"

I am nervous about writing this email, even though it's 20 words or less![/quote]

Too curt. “I am pregnant and due in January. I’m not going to be a chatterbox about it in person or on social media, but I wanted to tell you in case it gets around. We love you guys and I’m here for whatever.”[/quote]

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