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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've known two women like this in my life.  Both have worked for us. One is mid 40's. She is strikingly beautiful and has a "hot figure".  She is single.

The one working for us has a high school degree.  I think she has deep seated anger that she is not married do a big income male.  She is divorced.  The longer she works for us I realize how undeducated she really is.  Since she does not have the education to get ahead she puts others down in the workplace and fakes problems with others at the workplace to make her self advance. It is really twisted.

She worked at the DHS&MV office on a prior job.  She started dating her boss who was married with children.  The affair blew up.  Her boss stayed with the wife and children. She filed a 2-1/2 million sexual harrassment lawsuit with the STate of Maryland.  Since she is working with us I don't think the lawsuit went anywhere.

We had an older gent/client stop by the office. He was fit, attractive and dressed like he was in a Ralph Lauren ad.  She wanted the gent's name as she wanted to date the gent.  The guy was happily married to a teacher.
She backed down but [b]in her world if a guy is happily married it is okay to still target the guy for dating[/b].

I agree with prior poster. This lady is unhappy at heart and
targets weaker people to take out her frustration at life.

She has verbally lashed out at our CPA a number of times such that the CPA (a very nice lady) called me up and told me to fire her.

Recently I've had the verbal abuse (like the CPA) and we will most likely be terminating this woman at some point.
It is tough to walk on eggshells at work.

These people are toxic and have deep seated issues.

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With some of these people it's not even about the guy.  It can be a (very one-sided) competition with the woman the guy is married to.  In the damaged person's mind they are somehow "winning" or "better than" the spouse of the person they are pursuing.  It's the "I must be amazing if he's willing to risk losing her to cheat with me."  You summed it up perfectly with the word "twisted."  [/quote]

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