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[quote=Anonymous]Yeah I don’t think anyone is suggesting that grandma is an abuser. The idea is that if grandma teaches the child that it’s kosher to have this “fun secret” from her parents, a predator could exploit that by having a “fun secret” that was exploitative or abusive, especially if the child didn’t really get that anything bad was happening. Everyone means well here, so approach it with care and gentleness. But I think grandma should have a talk with the kid and explain that there’s no secret she can’t tell her parents, and that she SHOULD tell them if an adult asks her to keep a secret, that they won’t ever be mad if she tells them a secret, etc. [/quote]
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