Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Jobs and Careers
Reply to "Privy to 20-something nephew's red flags, tell brother (management) before he hires him?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm closer with my sister than my very busy and successful brother is, so I'm aware of deep and long-term character red flags in nephew that are unbeknownst to him. After burning basically every other bridge, my nephew is signaling a desire to mooch from my brother (his uncle). Basically get a job bailout and skate from his culmination of his poor decisions and any consequences. My husband says butt out, if my brother wants to give the young man a chance, let him. [b]My POV is maybe it's something he can pursue in the future, but I don't know how a young adult ever learns if they're immediately bailed out.[/b] And obviously I worry he may do something very stupid at my brother's corp.[/quote] To add, this is also why our brother is not aware. My BIL and sister have bailed the nephew out over and over and over and he's never faced consequences. And they project this outward perfect image, so my brother is oblivious to all of this. They/he have mooched from everyone in their orbit, burned every bridge, and now with his latest screw up, they want to move into a new oblivious host: my brother.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics