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[quote=Anonymous]Let me start by saying that I love my husband and am overall happy with our marriage in terms of respect, co-parenting and compatible views. My husband has steadily gained about 50 pounds over the past 3 years. I am straight up not attracted to him right now. The weight has impacted many things like his hygiene, the way he dresses, his interest in physical activities and his sex drive. He is gassy and his skin is broken out. He is the same wonderfully funny and thoughtful guy he was when we married, but physically, he has let himself go. When I suggest more exercise or prepare healthy meals or suggest cutting back on alcohol, he kind of jokes and says “I know I know- I’m getting a little chubby”. I don’t know how to talk to him about this without hurting his feelings. It’s really impacting the romantic side of our marriage and I find myself fantasizing about other men.[/quote]
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